Mastering Life’s Balancing Act: Unveiling Mel Robbins’ ‘Let Them’ Theory and the Empowering ‘For Me’ Counterpart

If you’ve ever given your reflection a high-five in the mirror or counted down five-four-three-two-one-GO (like a rocket launch), you might know who Mel Robbins is.

I was one of the few living under a rock who hadn’t heard of Mel Robbins until a company reached out about helping me become like her, and by like her, I mean everywhere. They suggested we have similar styles.

I’ve followed her since then, but her recent viral Instagram post nails her appeal. If you’ve been living under the same rock, let me introduce you to Mel Robbins, a best-selling author (I haven’t read her books, but they are in my Libby queue) and prolific podcaster.

The viral post starts with, “I just heard about this thing called the “let them” theory. I freaking love this,” she says, “If your friends are not inviting you to brunch this weekend, let them. If the person that you’re attracted to is not interested in a commitment, let them. If your kids do not want to get up and go to that thing with you this week, let them.”

If a person in your life is not showing up for you the way you need them to, stop wasting your time and energy on forcing them to match your expectations and instead, “Let them be themselves

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Kristi Andrus life and business coach

When I drop my kids off at school, I always kiss them and shout, BE AMAZING! Love your life, make the most of it, level up, and be amazing. www.kristiandrus.com